OH LAWDY! It’s August 1st already. What the hell happened to 2016?
The year has been a blur thus far. Receiving my rights back from Liquid Silver Books on the Dirty White Candy series, means they were all recovered and re-released this year through Syn Publishing.
That took some work.
In March, I released my very first Sci-Fi Alien Romance.
I also attended my very first multi-author book signing at the North Iowa Book Bash! I rubbed elbows with awesome artists such as Sidda Lee Rain, Ella Dominguez, Jenna Jacob and more! I was even fortunate enough to win a table at next year’s event.
Now, as for the remainder of the year…I am working on a super secret project and while I do want to spill the beans, all I can say is that I signed a confidentiality agreement! When I can tell you, I’ll scream it from the mountain tops.
Also, I’m involved in a Winter Anthology through Lavish Publishing. For my contribution, I’ve added 3.5 into the Shifter Chronicles. For the Anthology, the version will be PG-13, but for those who like erotic romance, I’ll be publishing a full-length, sexed up version. I don’t believe cover reveals are all that big of a deal, so I’ll share it with you now. 😀 See, Miss Anita loves you!
In this installment, we get a good look at the Special Forces division of FOSE and Jake’s obsession with Nala’s human friend, Susan. We may even get to find out who is behind the Separatist movement!
There is one more project I’m trying to finish this year, and that’s a Romantic Suspense/Crime Fiction novel. I’m not sure if I can squeeze it in, but if not, it’ll be early 2017 as I’ve already been working on it.
I finally received the rights to the last book in my Dirty White Candy series back from Liquid Silver Books. I don’t regret publishing with them. Every experience we have, we can learn from. However, I was never happy with the covers, and the price of the books kept going up, as sales went down.
They were pleasant when I asked for my rights back. They did ask why, and I gave them an honest answer. Still, they terminated my contracts when they expired and here I am. They’ve been republished with Syn Publishing, with great new covers.
In celebration of their re-release, Book 1, The Beginning will be FREE from June 26-30. You can grab your copy HERE.
Ladies and gentlemen, I did some beta reading for this little gem and let me tell you, it is HOT HOT HOT!!! Here are the details:
Warning: This book is designed for readers 18+ due to language and graphic sexual content.
A blueprint for desire.
With a shared passion for breathing life into an unconventional dream home, the attraction between a struggling new grad of interior design and an award-winning architect with eclectic sexual tastes is irresistible. But with a cloud of lies and loss hanging over him, the only arrangement Logan wants is one of indulgence and pleasure. However, fate seems to have another design plan in mind for them—a plan that ultimately leads them down a path of desire and discovery.
When the man obsessed with creating his unusual home sets his sights on the woman who keeps unknowingly navigating her way back to him, lust clouds his judgment and he makes an inappropriate proposition. After nearly blowing his chances with the talented and alluring beauty, he readjusts his plans, because it just so happens that his sexy ulterior motives go hand-in-hand with her expertise in interior design.
Though Chloe may be young and naïve in Logan’s eyes, she sees him for who and what he is: a man with severe commitment issues. But she’s optimistic—maybe too optimistic. And she isn’t easily deterred or scared away either, not even by the unusual nature of his design plans or his eclectic sexual tastes. In fact, she’s intrigued by them. Faced with a man who can give her not only the experience she needs to propel her career, but everything she’s ever fantasized about, she hopes that their physical and intellectual compatibility can prevail over his fears. And more importantly, that they can move forward to become not only design collaborators, but partners on a deeper level.
We buy the cards, the candy, the flowers. We associate this day with love and sweetness.
But do you know the bloody history behind this holiday?
There once was a royal prick, who ruled as Emperor from 268-270. He was known as Claudius II or Claudius Gothicus. During his short reign it is told (unverifiable of course) that he banned marriage because he thought his Roman men were better off being soldiers than spouses.
The Priest Valentine defied the emperor and performed marriages in secret. He was beheaded for his crimes. In a cool move by Karma, herself, Claudius died of small pox, ending his reign of terror.
Even more interesting is that we celebrate this day in February because the Catholic Church was trying to “christianize” the pagan holiday, Lupercalia. Roman priests would sacrifice a goat and a dog, strip the goat’s hide, cut it in to strips and dip it in blood, slapping it on women and fields for coming fertility. Oh yes…that’s romantic.
Don’t worry, the blood continues.
Our favorite gangster, Al Capone, grew tired of his feud with George “Bugs” Moran. A $50k bounty on his head was the final straw. Capone ordered the Moran gang to be decimated. On February 14th, Moran waited for his men during a whiskey run. As he waited outside, seven of his best men were being slaughtered inside. On the seven year anniversary, again on February, 14th, one of Capone’s assassins was killed inside a bowling alley by gunfire.
I’m sure my readers are a little freaked. I mean, really, an erotic romance author is just killing our lovey-dovey holiday?
I just love irony. So while you’re cuddled up with your loved one at your Valentine’s Day celebration, remember that you’re celebrating one of the bloodiest holidays in our history.
Let me preface this by saying my mother does not have a computer, or a smartphone. She doesn’t do the internet, make payments online, or order anything online. She gives me the cash to do it for her. Yep, she’s old school. Thank God! Because if she did, she’d surely strip my father of his belt and beat my ass with it.
I do have a cousin with a wife that likes to stir things up (not in a bad way,) and Jessica might just show this to her so she can laugh her ass off with all of her wiener dog rescues. But I digress.
What’s incredibly hilarious to me is the assumptions folks make about the authors of erotic content. It’s like we are so sex starved that we are getting finger banged in the grocery store bathroom every Wednesday by the young man who bags our produce.
Assumption: Your mother must have been incredibly progressive for you to have the sex education you have.
Reality: My mother is a quiet woman, who enjoys country music and church. Yes, she’s read all of my books but we do not speak about them…like at all. It freaks me out that she reads them and I’m sure it freaks her out that I write them. But we don’t DARE speak about them. When it was time to talk about sex, she grabbed a Medical Encyclopedia (for you young folks, it’s the old time version of Wikipedia) and showed me a diagram of a penis. It was horrifying, not to mention not very educational at all. But what it did do was make me stop asking questions. Poor thing…she did the best she could when I asked her what a Blow Job was.
Assumption: Your husband must be the most satisfied man on the face of the planet!
Reality: I work full time and write/blog/edit/market when I’m not at work. When’s he supposed to get some booty? Okay, we do have our wild times and yes, he’s a happy man. But he wants sex like 8 times a day. Who has time for that? I got shit to do!
Assumption (this one cracks me up): You must slip into something sexy when you write. You can just feel sex appeal slipping off the page. (Yes folks, these are actual words sent to me.)
Reality: If I have to sit in a chair for five hours, I’m not doing it in lingerie. If I did, the hubs would be attacking me and I wouldn’t be writing. Not to mention I have a 15 year old who would be scarred for life if I sat around the house in lingerie. A pair of crotchless panties would just send him to a lifetime of therapy.
I actually slip into something stretchy and usually have an adult beverage on hand, like Vodka and carbonated cranberry juice, or moscato. During the day, it’s coffee. But no… no lingerie. I did try a dress once but when I sat Indian style, my kid hand a stroke.
Assumption: You’ve experienced everything in your books.
Reality: Do you ask other people what sexual experiences they’ve had? For the record, I’ve never been to an island that is a swingers resort. I’ve never had sex with a shifter, or a pixie. Also, I have never magically grown a dick. That’s all fiction. Not that I’m opposed…
Assumption: You must be really open with your kids.
Reality: This one is actually very true. I believe in sex education. My daughter can and has asked me some really crazy questions. I’ve always had the answer and shared openly with her. The one time I didn’t, I looked it up. When she came out as bi-sexual, I didn’t shame her. I brought up the research and showed her statistically, she’s pretty fuckin’ average. That gave her the confidence to come out publicly.
The boy…the boy doesn’t ask much. He just mentioned to me that he can’t wear condoms because he’s allergic to latex. So…I gave him an education on non-latex condoms. He’s a lot less comfortable talking with me about this stuff, but he’s starting to open up.
And I don’t just recommend the YouTube Channel Sexplanations on here. I’ve also sent links to my children. My eldest is 19 and the youngest is 15. Who better to explain things to them than a Licensed Clinical Sexologist?
Assumption: You love reading erotica and watching porn.
Reality: I do watch porn. I don’t enjoy most of it. The gagging, facials and all around grossness gags me. There are very few “scenes” I find sexy at all. And what the FUCK is with all of the anal? Come on….I actually read an article from a videographer that filmed those scenes. He said the smell alone killed his appetite and sex drive. Don’t get me started on all of the spitting. Who thought THAT was a good idea?
Call me an old fucker if you want, but some of these girls look 14 years old… I just cringe. Not sexy to me. Not sexy at all.
I do enjoy reading erotic romance but for fucks sake there’s so much drivel out there. I find some of the BDSM novels horrifying. According to reviews, there are many out there that like it. But when you draw blood? Well, if I had a dick, it would turtle.
And the bodily fluids…don’t get me started. When I read that a woman has cream oozing out of her, I’m thinking she needs to get to her OBGYN. I’m not exactly getting worked up. Yogurt just doesn’t flow out of a healthy vagina.
With all of that being said, there are great porns out there and great erotic content. You just have to be a smart buyer. Look at/read the samples. I’m not saying mine is the best. Not at all or I’d be selling like Maya Banks and Shayla Black.
Assumption: You’ve got to be making a killing!
Reality: I work a full-time job because I have to. Because I have a family. Maybe one day, I’ll be able to get the big house. For now, no, a killing doesn’t describe what I’m making.
I managed to get the spousal unit to give me Sunday to work. It’s a challenge because he’s my social butterfly and hates to sit alone.
So I’m in my office working away when my son strolls in. “Oh, are you writing again?”
Now…I’m sitting at my laptop, notes everywhere and MS Word clearly up on the screen. I smile and nod anyway. My boy is interested though, and that makes me feel pretty good. He’s fifteen and the fact that he even cares that I exist beyond feeding him is impressive.
“What are you writing about?” He sits on the bed…yes, there’s a bed in my office. Because, naps.
He knows I write smut, so I give him the short answer. “Aliens.”
His eyes widen. “Well, you’ve got my attention. What aliens?”
I can’t help but smile. He usually doesn’t care what I write about, or that I even write. “The Asgard.”
Now he’s standing again and I can see that he’s about to nerd-out on me. “Asgards as in Thor?”
“Yup! It’s still an erotic romance.” I remind him what I do and he rolls his eyes.
“Mom, do not puss out Thor like they did in the Avengers. He’s a warrior, not a puss. Seriously, people will hate you.”
I’m laughing at this point because I know what he’s picturing in his head…Helmsworth, naked on a bearskin rug, holding a girly drink. “Duly noted son.”
I will not “puss out” Thor, as my son suggested. Because…people will hate me.
First, I’m choosing to put these images right here of a stunningly beautiful woman for your viewing pleasure.
It isn’t often that I use my platform for something other than encouraging words, sharing the books of my colleagues, or just general sex education such as: Finding your G-Spot, or my Horny Humpday posts where I gave sex tips like turning off your gag reflex, I like to entertain my fans.
Today, however, today I’m reaching out. I’m asking fans to open your minds, broaden your horizons and elevate your humanity.
I’m doing this for 700,000 adults in the United States, and an uncounted number of young adults and teens who are at risk.
I’m choosing to continue my need to spread knowledge in hopes for peace one day for the 700,000 plus. Seven hundred thousand is a large number. What section of the population so huge could possibly need help?
The transgender population. That’s who. People who feel their physiology does not match their soul. People who have been crammed into bodies that feel alien to them.
I know, I know. I’ve heard all of the arguments. But, Anita! They’re pushing the “gay agenda.” (First of all, I don’t know what that is? Does it have glitter?) If the gay agenda is that all humans can be who they are, and be free to marry whatever consenting adult they wish, then yes, they’re pushing the gay agenda. But that’s only one tiny facet here.
I’m not going to try to educate you on what being transgendered means. Nor will I explain the science that says these people ARE actually the gender with which they identify, some biology just went haywire.
What I will do is post some information videos below from an actual doctor. I will also reach out and ask that at lease MY people not share the horrible trans-phobic posts on social media. That you try to understand that for SOME trans folks, Caitlyn Jenner is a beacon of hope for them (not for all trans folk. They are as diverse as any CIS-gendered folk. CIS means your mind and body agree with what your sex is.)
I ask that you treat these people with common decency and a modicum of respect. That you allow them to work their jobs to feed themselves. They want to be happy, healthy, productive members of society. Just like you and me. They WANT the problem of paying taxes, rather than waiting for their food stamp card to be reloaded.
They deserve respect. Even from those who don’t fully understand what is going on. They deserve understanding as they’re walking a path most wouldn’t have the balls to. They’ve chosen to take the long hard road to be who they feel they are.
So, you want to take it a step further, you say? You want to make them feel as cozy and warm in your environment? Well, try to use their chosen pronoun. If she is transitioning to he. Then try to say he. If you screw up, don’t freak out. Apologize, correct yourself, and move on. They will forgive you. More than that, they’ll be touched that you are trying.
DON’T ask about their sexuality/sex lives. That’s as private and personal as your sexuality and sex life. Unless they open the door to questions (and a lot will, but some are still finding their way or BELIEVE IT OR NOT, are conservative,) then fire away. Some are very happy to explain the Ps and Qs of their personal business.
DON’T ask about their physiology. Look, all of the hormones…those are super expensive. Surgery, well, holy shit expensive. A decent boob job is around $10k. Now, reversing the genitals… that’s a hellova lot more and there’s a lot of pain involved. Also, it’s like…none of your business, unless they wish to discuss it with you.
Okay…now… “not all trans people are gay.” That’s a tricky statement. If a trans person was born a man, is attracted to women, but feels like a woman that person starts off straight, but after the transition is technically gay. So… there’s that.
Some do start off homosexual. Again, some NOT all. This is a very diverse group.
All I’m asking for is that you consider them human. That you set your own personal beliefs aside and treat them like human beings. That you not spread harmful language. That you set an example for our youth… if they hear you speaking hatefully about the transgendered population, they’re going to think it’s okay.
Most importantly, please remember our youth. They are already at risk in today’s society. Transgendered youth are at an increasingly high rate for risk of suicide. If just ONE of you treat them with kindness… you could prevent that death. Yes, a smile and kind word really can change that person’s whole day. It starts with one. You.
Oh, and I chose to post the pictures above of Candice Cayne…a beautiful Trans woman for…reasons.